In fact, in addition to the warmth gained from watching this movie, what has also benefited me is the male lead's way of communicating with his niece.
Two scenes are more impressive:
1. The male lead felt embarrassed when Mary saw her teacher appear at their home in the morning, so he became angry with Mary and said some angry words, and then Mary sulked in bed by herself. The male lead came to ask Mary apologized and asked for forgiveness. Mary asked her if it was because she let him have no personal private life. At this time, the male lead did not directly explain that there was no. Instead, he said: What I said at that time is like what you said before because I didn't. I bought you a piano and said I was a Bad Uncle
2. In order to win the lawsuit, the mother of the protagonist found Mary's biological father. The details of the lawsuit were not mentioned. Afterwards, Mary knew that her father had appeared and was so close to herself. She felt that she was not affected. Those who are needed, abandoned, a person shut themselves in the toilet and cry. At this time, the male lead took them to the hospital and waited until the other group of people in the hospital were happy and dancing with the news of the successful delivery. , The male lead said to Mary, it was the same when you were born.
In fact, sometimes the power of language is really weak, because you still need the ability to attach your emotions to the other party, but often only the literal meaning is received, so the other party can accept yours. Emotion is a very important thing. In the first scene, the male lead made Mary, this seven-year-old child can really feel that his angry words are just complaints against himself, and they are angry with himself. All Words never tried to hurt her; in the second scene, the male lead replaced all the words of description by placing Mary directly in the joy of welcoming the new life, which made people feel more sensible.
Try to start learning this ability, it will be useful
